Second Parish Unitarian Universalist

Hingham, Massachusetts

Glad Tidings

From the Minister –

 

As I was listening to the news the other day, I heard a report about Black Friday and its somewhat more dismal prospects this year.  Having taught American History from the Civil War to the present to 7th graders for 10 years, and having expended substantial time on the Stock Market Crash of 1929 (my students were fascinated with money, especially the idea of making lots of it), my natural association with Black Friday is the day of the Crash – although as I remember more closely, it was actually Black Thursday followed by Black Tuesday the following week.  Of course, everyone knows that Black Friday is really the day after Thanksgiving, the day when retailers’ balance sheets turn from red to black, the day when money starts being made as shoppers prepare for Christmas.

 

I suppose there might be other associations:  the black mood we might find ourselves in while fighting the biggest crowds of the year that day; anger that so much of the season from now until Christmas is taken up with commercialized displays; depression at the pressure to find the perfect gift for everyone on our gift lists.

 

For the past few years, our family has been using our Christmas gathering as an occasion for competing with each other over raising money for Heifer International, buying bees, pigs, chickens, and ducks, shares of heifers and water buffalo and so on, as a way to share what we have.  This year we’ve agreed to help raise money to buy yaks for the family of a friend’s son-in-law in Tibet.  An agreement with friends and family to share gifts with a wider circle of those who need our help can both ease the anxiety of the gift-selecting season and give the satisfaction of providing a gift you know is really needed.  An article about the Interfaith Food Pantry hosted at Second Parish (written by Deedee, appearing Thanksgiving week) highlights some teenagers who have asked that birthday gifts be given instead to the Food Pantry, and I know that gifts for Christmas would also be welcome and put to good use. 

 

Sometimes I’m tempted to blame it all on the wise men who started it all by bringing gifts to the Baby Jesus.  The story of the wise men tells us that Jesus was recognized by the wisest of humans as being an extraordinary infant, and they in turn brought gifts worthy of a king to honor him.  The shepherds, on the other hand, could bring only themselves, but they were equally welcome and equally able to honor the newborn infant.

 

We don’t have to come bearing many gifts; our presence is the greatest gift we can offer.  Make sure to bring the gift of your presence to our Children’s Pageant and to our traditional Christmas Eve Candlelight Service at 5:00 pm on Christmas Eve!

 

Great Joy for the Season (and PEACE, not anxiety!)

Paul

Notes from the Leadership Board

 

A total of $285 from our special plate collection for November was sent to the Fire Relief Fund in the Pacific Southwest District to aid UU congregations affected by the devastating fires that ravaged sections of California this past fall. We’ll be giving our December collection to a group closer to home - the Hingham Food Pantry, whose dedication to helping the needy around us is especially evident during this holiday season.    

                                             -Allan Viden, Leadership Board Chair

 

The Property Committee has been formed and held its initial meeting November 8th. Chip King, Steve Kelsch and I met along with Kim Shaw since so many property issues involve the ability to pay for the actions.

 

We have started to address a number of issues and will be looking at basic cleaning and maintenance, service providers, operational documentation and physical improvements. These improvements will be divided into immediate action items such a paint and appearance issues and longer term items classified as major capital expenses.

 

Our overall goal will be to create an environment that will serve the needs of the membership and present an attractive place for potential new members.         

                                                                                        -Len O’Connor, Properties Chair

 

The Membership Committee met this month. We are Deedee Agee, Dinah Collins, Chip King, Julianna Lovell,

Mariann O'Connor, Jane Shute.  Mariann is chairperson of the committee and Dinah is liaison to the Leadership

Board. Anyone is welcome to join us.  With the goal of increasing our membership we are working on increasing publicity for our church.   The October meeting of S. Shore Membership Chairs was helpful for sharing ideas and concerns related to the common goal of church growth. I especially like the Kingston Church's "Information Island", a table at every coffee hour with information for everyone and a membership committee member available.

Please invite your family and friends to our Glad Tidings Bazaar on December 1st, our Christmas Pageant on the 23rd, and our Christmas Eve Service.                   

                                                                                       -Dinah Collins, Membership Chair

 

Greeters for December

December:  2 -Tracy and Frank White; 9 - Elaine Cadogan; 16 -Tasha Allan, 23 & 30 - Becky Weston

 

Music Schedule for November

12/2 Elizabeth Morrell, soprano

12/9 Choir

12/16 Elizabeth Morrell, soprano

12/23 Choir

12/24 Choir

12/30 TBD

 

Community

Men’s Breakfast

The next men's breakfast will be held at 8:00 a.m. in Cushing Hall on Saturday, December 15th.  All men of the parish are welcome to join us for a high cholesterol breakfast and conversation. We have no set agenda.  Come prepared to talk about anything on your mind.  We break promptly at 9:00 a.m.  Call Lou Belknap at 781-749-5519 if you can join us, or email me at lsbelknap@verizon.net.

 

 

Book Group

The Book Group will meet on Tuesday, January 15 at 7:30 p.m. at Jennifer Love’s (100 Gardner St.).  The book is Lindbergh, by A. Scott Berg.  Any questions, call Jennifer Love at 781-749-3243.

 

 

Favorite Fables

Google "fables" and you'll find that the use of a short, short story to teach a lesson shows up in all times and all cultures. These stories are little gifts of instruction - or wit - that capture an important lesson about the human experience. On December 30th, we will be sharing these gifts at a lay service with the theme of "Favorite Fables." If you'd like to participate either by suggesting a fable to be read or reading one yourself please contact Stephanie Shute Kelsch at 781-749-5374 or skskhing4@comcast.net.  All ages are welcome to participate and the more varied the participants, the more varied the fables! So dig into your Aesop, your James Thurber, your LaFontaine and prepare to share the gift of fables at the end of Christmas week.

-Submitted by Stephanie Kelsch

 

Note from the Collectors

A reminder to pay your pledge before December 31 if you want to take full advantage of a tax deduction this calendar year. We will be sending out status letters at the end of the year. If you want to know your current status, please email Lou Belknap at lsbelknap@verizon.net or Bernie Peavey at bernpeavey@msn.com.

-Submitted by Lou Belknap

 

 News from our Cooperative Religious Education Program

 

The RE calendar for the year has been distributed and posted. If you did not get a copy and would like one, please contact me.

 

Thank you very much to the Intermediate class who hosted a very nice coffee hour for the Congregation recently. Congratulations are also due to them for collecting, with the help of the Primary class, $232.29 for UNICEF. They had fun and enjoyed making positive contributions, both to their church community and to this great international valuable organization dedicated to helping children in the world. And a special thank you goes to Sean Gallagher for facilitating these social action efforts.

 

Our intergenerational Thanksgiving service was well received. Thank you very much to all the children and youth who participated and helped during the nice service.


On November 25, all the children present will learn about Native American beliefs and practices and will prepare an educational display in Cushing Hall.


The Christmas Pageant rehearsals and presentation will take place on December 9, 16 and 23 this year. It is important that all children and teens plan to be present for those three dates. Last year, the support of parents was really excellent and it greatly contributed to a very nice pageant indeed.


May you enjoy this Holiday Season with peace in your heart.

 

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, Director of Religious Education Lilianevhing@aol.com, 781-749-9581

 

 

 

2007 CHRISTMAS FAIR

Saturday, December 1st from 9:00 am to 1:00 pm

Please Note:  Friday, November 30th set up fair at 9:00 am

 

We need help from everyone baking, making jams and jellies and chocolate treats.  This is not only a major fund raiser for the church, but also a fun event! 

 

Please call a table chairperson if you would like to help on that table.

 

Christmas Cookie Sale-Julianna Lovell 740-1045 

 

If you are planning to help the bake table, could you please consider making cookies that we will sell in coffee tins to time starved people.

 

Home Center-Diana Meigs 749-5996

 

Handmade items.  The Craft Connection meets Mondays in Cushing Hall at 9:30 a.m.  Your work done at home is welcome.  Bring Friday before the fair. 

 

Gifts-Alice Brewer 749-2873

         Mariann O’Connor 749-9896

           

We need suitable new or almost new treasures.  More ideas are needed.

 

Cheese Table-Len O’Connor 749-9896

           

Cabot’s Cheese Wheel - Extra Sharp - sold by weight.

 

Greens, Wreaths, and Decorations-Jennifer Love 749-3243

                                                        Susan Weisenbeck 740-7841

 

Food Table-Elaine Cadogan 331-1492

                   Sandy Peavey 749-6081          

 

This is a very popular table and sells out early.  Everyone, please bake. See note above about the cookie sale.

 

*This is only a partial list.

 

 

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A Survey Sheet for All Members and Friends of Second Parish

The Leadership Board has chosen as two of its main responsibilities this year increasing not only the membership of Second Parish but also the number of people attending the church service each Sunday. We want to see more members and friends, newcomers and visitors, sharing the words of our minister, the music of our choir, and the fellowship of our people. Although history and tradition and beauty provide a common bond for all those who are connected with a church, the energy that makes it work and grow must come from its people. Now, several of you have suggested that an earlier starting time on Sunday morning might enable more people to attend church. This means that the service would start at ten o’clock, instead of at ten-thirty, as it presently does. The new starting time would take effect on Sunday, January 6, 2008. Would this change appeal to a significant number of you and be acceptable to others? We want to know how you feel, so we are providing a brief form below to guide your response.

                                                 -The Leadership Board

 

_________ Yes, I would like to change the starting time for Sunday service to 10:00 am.

_________ No, I do not want to change the starting time for Sunday service to 10:00 am.

_________ Although I would prefer to keep the starting time for Sunday service at 10:30 am,

                   I would be willing to adjust to a new time of 10:00 am.

 

Please respond to these questions in one of the following ways:

      Complete this form and send to the church office (Attention: Leadership Board).

      Send response to the church office by email (secondparish@yahoo.com).

 

Your comments below are welcome: